It is no secret that modern relationships tend to suffer from a lack of commitment often translating into situationships, dead bedrooms, or relationships somewhat defined by resentment.
I believe this to no small extent is because no nearly no modern man is capable of directing his sexual energy exclusively to the one person it should belong to: his wife or girlfriend. Seeing how ubiquitus pornography, thrist-traps, and references to them has become it essentially trains men to let a myriad of other women (along with his hand) be the source of his sexual satisfaction. This devalues his sweetheart in a way that would be unthinkable in committed relationship before the advent of modern pornography. Furthermore a brain influenced by a lot of porn will on a certain level desire a variety of sexual encounters that can never be satisfied by his wife or girlfriend alone.
In a sense you could say that modern relationships, while usually aspiring to monogamy, don't actually represent true monogamy, instead having the man to a large extent, or perhaps even mostly, expending his sexual energy on fantasies not involving his partner, sexual self-gratification, and perhaps on a subconscious level, trained by porn, hoping for sexual encounters with other women.
This website is dedicated to introducing the solution that helped my wife and I conquer these issues and grow closer as a couple unlocking a level of lasting intimacy even exceeding our initial honeymoon phase.
The solution is introducing male chastity into the relationship. In essence this means that the man makes his sweetheart the only source of his sexual gratification. However as previously mentioned the modern world has essentially trained him to fail at this task from when he was a teenager and he cannot easily overcome this. As a symbol of him directing his sexual energy exclusively to her and to truly make it impossible for him to easily provide his own gratification the only solution outside religious fundamentalist communities is the introduction of a chastity cage; a device locking onto his genitals with a key being placed under her control. After some time this elevates his sweetheart to her rightful place as the only source of his fantasies and sexual satisfaction.
Though it does see use in the BDSM community and has associations to more deviant behaviours its purpose here is simply to build a relationship that restores the traditional romantic balance where the woman is the only source of a man's sexual satisfaction.
A valid concern that may then come to mind is that a sexually frustrated man locked up in a chastity cage will nag his wife for sex and that this will create a dynamic of duty sex for her. To counteract this another measure is necessary: focusing sex on the woman's pleasure.
What we want is to create a balance that harnesses the man's immense sexual energy into behaviours that build up the relationship and leaves her deeply satisfied both romantically and sexually in a way she would not imagine to be possible previously. This restructuring of the relationship shifting the focus from his to her pleasure generally creates a new sex life where she enthusiastically participates, initiates, and enjoys herself in away that traditional monogamy can not match; this is is the wonder of modern monogamy.
This should also not be seen as synonymous with him being submissive or a deviant, merely his wish to have a deep and meaningful relationship where she is the only woman in his life and fantasies. I strongly believe that in a world as drenched in thrist traps, pornography, and temptations as the one we live in today male chastity paired with modern monogamy has become nearly a requirement to build a truly intimate and mutually satisfying relationship.
"Let your spring be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth: a beloved doe and most pleasing fawn. Let her breasts inebriate you at all times. Be delighted continually by her love." -Proverbs 5:18